Kisah Nyata : Pengakuan PSK, ASI bukan untuk anak Tetapi untuk Pelanggan

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Bagi PSK, melayani pria hidung belang adalah salah satu wujud profesionalitas. Tak peduli bagaimana situasi mereka, terkecuali mau uang kudu mau melayani pria hidung belang.

Di salah satu kawasan di Puncak, Bogor, Jawa Barat, banyak PSK yang tengah hamil atau baru melahirkan tetapi selamanya bekerja melayani pria. Bahkan mereka dipesan khusus oleh sejumlah pria yang mengidamkan nikmati sensasi terkait seks bersama wanita hamil atau nikmati ASI.

Rata-rata PSK di kawasan ini menentukan menambahkan susu formula untuk bayinya sebab cemas payudara mengendur. ASI yang mereka hasilkan justru dinikmati oleh pria pelanggan yang mengidamkan sensasi berbeda.

Untuk perlihatkan kabar tersebut, kumparan menelusuri sejumlah lokalisasi di kawasan Puncak. Penelusuran di awali pada Jumat (7/9) bersama melacak keterangan dari para pedagang di sekitar lokasi. 

Di seberang jalan tempat kita berdiri, tampak seorang pria bertopi putih duduk di depan warung kelontong sambil menghisap rokok. Dia mengobrol asyik bersama pria lain yang duduk di sampingnya.

"Itu calo," ujar salah satu warga.

Benar saja, disaat memasuki gang tersebut ke-2 pria itu segera menghampiri dan berlomba-lomba tawarkan jasa sewa kamar.

Singkat cerita, melalui jasa calo, kita berhasil berjumpa PSK yang tengah hamil tua dan masih melayani pelanggan. Dia bersedia diwawancara bersama nama yang disamarkan.

"Ada (PSK) mas, sebentar aku jemput ke mes dulu," ujar calo tersebut.

Konten pribadi lokalisasi Gang Semen Megamendung, Puncak, Bogor. (Foto: Helmi Afandi/kumparan)

Tak lama sesudah itu PSK itu datang. Sebut saja namanya Ana. Badannya padat memuat bersama rambut panjang lurus digerai ke belakang. Dia mengenakan jaket dan celana tiga perempat motif army.

Meski hamil 8 bulan, Ana selamanya melayani pelanggan agar pemasukan tidak berkurang. Dia terhitung tengah menabung untuk ongkos persalinan nanti.

"Masih (kerja), ya kan buat ongkos lahiran juga," ujar Ana mengawali pembicaraan.

Usianya baru 18 tahun tetapi telah menjadi PSK sejak 2 tahun yang lalu. Kala itu dia ditinggalkan oleh suaminya, selanjutnya memutuskan menjadi PSK. Ana tak jelas sama juga anak siapa yang saat ini tengah ia kandung.

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"Enggak jelas terhitung kan ada yang serupa tamu terhitung ada yang bocor kan kadang gak tahu. Kalau dari feeling sih dari pacar ya soalnya kan sebelum saat hamil enggak manfaatkan kondom serupa pacar doang," ujar Ana menceritakan dugaan anak yang ia kandung.

Selama hamil, Ana tak begitu mempedulikan kebugaran kandungannya. Ia lebih fokus pada pekerjaannya sebagai PSK. Terlebih ada sejumlah pria hidung belang yang sengaja melacak wanita hamil atau menyusui untuk memuaskan hasrat mereka.

"(Alasan pelanggan) pingin nyobain air ASI yang hamil, sebab terkecuali dipaksain kan terlihat terhitung ya menjadi pingin air ASI-nya doang tetapi enggak dipakai," ujar Ana.

Konten pribadi lokalisasi Gang Semen Megamendung, Puncak, Bogor. (Foto: Helmi Afandi/kumparan)

Meski bersama situasi demikian, tak ada perbedaan tarif pada dirinya yang tengah hamil bersama temannya yang tidak hamil. Ana terima imbalan jasa Rp 200-300 ribu dari para pelanggan di dalam sekali kencan. Namun kebanyakan PSK hamil mendapat tip lebih dari pelanggan.

Bagi Ana, hamil dan miliki anak tanpa ayah adalah risiko pekerjaan yang kudu di terima PSK. Dia terhitung mengaku siap terima risiko tersebut.

Ana berencana melahirkan di mes lokalisasi. Anaknya dapat ia serahkan ke mama germo untuk dirawat.

"Rencananya sih serupa mama germonya. Diasuh di situ dan dibiayain serupa germonya gitu," ujar Ana.

Biasanya bayi-bayi yang diasuh germo tidak diberi ASI meski ibunya tinggal di kawasan yang sama. Mereka cuma sesekali menemui anaknya.

"Ya kebanyakan sih manfaatkan susu itu aja, kebanyakan sih serupa susu formula," tutur wanita asal Bogor itu.


PSK lainya bernama  Reni, yang baru saja satu bulan melahirkan anaknya menceritakan pengalaman yang sama. Anak dari hasil hubungan gelapnya bersama pelanggan setahun yang selanjutnya tak pernah ia beri ASI.

Satu bulan penuh ia memelihara sendiri anaknya di mes PSK. Bulan selanjutnya ia menentukan menitipkan anaknya tersebut kepada orang tuanya di Cipanas, Bogor.

Setiap bulan ia mengirim uang kepada orang tuanya sebagai ongkos memelihara anak. “Aku sih  paling tiap minggu sekali, paling lima ratus ribu,” tutupnya. 




Source  : Kumparan.com